Hi Nick:
I have tried a 0.25 micron aluminum oxide suspension on a fine silk lap and had fairly good results, after which I ultra-sonicate the standard block for several minutes and finish with a light rinse with methanol. This method seems to work well with silicate mounts, but it isn't necessarily the best method for metal standards (especially Ti and Mg). I am running into the same issues as you are with metal standards (e.g., the JEOL metals block), having tried methanol or ethanol as a suspension and rinsing agent. Using an organic that is too reactive towards epoxy-based mounts can be disastrous, so it is best to try some of the solvent on the back side of the standard block first, to see if the solvent softens the epoxy at all. One method I am toying with is using a dry-polish method using fine lapping films from Lee Valley - they have 0.5 and 0.1 um diamond lapping film
http://www.leevalley.com/en/wood/page.aspx?p=68943&cat=1,43072 . I think this would work well, and I am going to give it a try with a standard mount that I don't use anymore. I use this type of film to polish my hand-carving tools at home. I hope this helps.
Best regards
Dan MacDonald (Dalhousie University, Halifax, N.S., Canada)